Ericast 254 - Try Exposing Yourself!
If you don't say anything to anyone, you won't hear many complaints. But is that a good way to live? Here's your show.
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This week: A week-in-the-life. (And, my studio chair squeaks. FYI)
Years ago we asked a post-event review question of "Is there anything that could've made this better?" Someone's answer? "Get rid of Eric Larson as a presenter. He uses too much self-deprecating humor."
It's at that point I decided to stop doing that, and to start deprecating others.
That weird bitter shot gave me my best self-deprecating joke ever! It's awesome! I would've done just fine without that feedback, and I do just fine with it. So don't fear feedback.
Panel Discussion on tips/tricks/experiences with "synchronous online learning," where I was facilitating (vs. moderating).
Say you want to buy a car. Ford vs. Toyota. How not to get ripped off at the dealership.
"Wait! I don't buy into this whole 'car' thing"
That could be outdated bias -- "My uncle sells buggy-whips and he thinks sales are picking up!"
Or that could be wise insight -- "Have you seen light rail and the bike-share programs?"
But that's not the right world -- not the right direction or set of questions -- for the people who've decided they need a car and are going to walk in a dealership and need some tips on negotiating or brand comparison.
Did we miss-market the event? Well, if we'd been really specific and targeted really well, we could've had a quarter of the numbers in the room and they'd have all said we were awesome. And that would've eliminated the bottom 10 percent who made some really snide complaints
But what about that extra 50, 60, 70% in the middle? Who got exposed to some new stuff and thought it was pretty good and have some new stuff to think about?
This isn't a call to be sloppy or unclear.
But if you've got a message you believe in; if you think you're doing good work, if you think you have something to offer to the right people... be willing to expose yourself to the wrong people, because that's what it's going to take if you speak up and seek out the right people.
Reflection: I've got my stuff together and want to do _____. Maybe you do, maybe you don't. "Humble learner" is a difficult position. Coaching someone into humility doesn't work; that's basically seen as the definition of arrogance (and maybe it is).
Website viewers: Click here to listen to this week's episode!
Podcast listeners: Click here for a link to the show notes page!
Everyone: Call 206-339-ERIC (206-339-3742) and comment!
This week: A week-in-the-life. (And, my studio chair squeaks. FYI)
Years ago we asked a post-event review question of "Is there anything that could've made this better?" Someone's answer? "Get rid of Eric Larson as a presenter. He uses too much self-deprecating humor."
It's at that point I decided to stop doing that, and to start deprecating others.
That weird bitter shot gave me my best self-deprecating joke ever! It's awesome! I would've done just fine without that feedback, and I do just fine with it. So don't fear feedback.
"With all those windows on the west side, in the afternoon, that side of the 4th floor just gets baked"
"Yeah, I've heard. But what about the sunshine?"
Panel Discussion on tips/tricks/experiences with "synchronous online learning," where I was facilitating (vs. moderating).
Say you want to buy a car. Ford vs. Toyota. How not to get ripped off at the dealership.
"Wait! I don't buy into this whole 'car' thing"
That could be outdated bias -- "My uncle sells buggy-whips and he thinks sales are picking up!"
Or that could be wise insight -- "Have you seen light rail and the bike-share programs?"
But that's not the right world -- not the right direction or set of questions -- for the people who've decided they need a car and are going to walk in a dealership and need some tips on negotiating or brand comparison.
Did we miss-market the event? Well, if we'd been really specific and targeted really well, we could've had a quarter of the numbers in the room and they'd have all said we were awesome. And that would've eliminated the bottom 10 percent who made some really snide complaints
But what about that extra 50, 60, 70% in the middle? Who got exposed to some new stuff and thought it was pretty good and have some new stuff to think about?
This isn't a call to be sloppy or unclear.
But if you've got a message you believe in; if you think you're doing good work, if you think you have something to offer to the right people... be willing to expose yourself to the wrong people, because that's what it's going to take if you speak up and seek out the right people.
Reflection: I've got my stuff together and want to do _____. Maybe you do, maybe you don't. "Humble learner" is a difficult position. Coaching someone into humility doesn't work; that's basically seen as the definition of arrogance (and maybe it is).
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